She is sensual—she fully inhabits her body.

She is erotic—she knows who she is as a sexual being and knows what turns her on.

She is self-loving—she is kind to herself and accepts herself as she is.

She desires—she uses what she wants as a compass toward self-discovery, autonomy, and self-care.

She has a healthy, active, pleasurable sex life.

She is a feminist, a goddess, a slut, a wild woman that belongs only to herself.

Sexual liberation is for everyone. And yours wants to be uncovered from underneath the shame, self-doubt, trauma, and insecurity that has kept you feeling broken and disconnected.

I want to help you liberate your sexuality.

As a sexuality doula, my deepest passion is helping womxn and femme-identifying folks step out of sexual shame and into their erotic power.

And I think that’s why you’re here—to be opened up to your own erotic potential and to define and embody what it means to be sexually and sensually free.

Clearly, you’re ready to awaken. You wouldn’t be here if there weren’t some part of you that resonates with this kind of healing. 

I take this as a sign. Let’s go with it.


If you’re tired of feeling broken, confused, pent up. If shame is keeping you weighed down. If the intimacy you share with your partner is lacking. If you want sex to feel effortless and pleasurable—

I’ve got the medicine you need.

My three-month sexual liberation coaching program acts as a guided, well-lit path toward sexual self-discovery and erotic empowerment. (More details here.)

Through my teachings and healing practice, I’ve guided hundreds of womxn and femme-identifying people into beautiful sexual awakenings.


And I would absolutely love to facilitate yours.



One-on-one work not for you right now?
Check out my shop for other ways to work with me.


“It’s a rare gift to find someone who is able to tenderly hold space with one’s vulnerabilities.”

When I opened myself to this experience I knew even as I felt inner fears and ghost trembles that there were parts of me thirsting to be seen. When I heard your voice I felt that the decision to give voice to this call was the only right thing I could have done for the self I want to become. I am grateful for your wise energy, your tenderness and the lightness with which you guided me during these sessions. —Jasmine K.

. . .

“I had no idea just how many harmful behavior and thought patterns would be revealed and challenged during our sessions.”

I was hoping for growth, for a change in how my sensual and sexual self-interacted with the world. I hoped to come to a place without shame, without fear. With Ev’Yan’s help, I’ve given myself permission to be truly liberated. Thank you, Ev’Yan for your compassionate listening and guidance. You’ve given me a tremendous foundation to continue my work. —Lonette R.

. . .

“My decision to try coaching with her was the first domino piece that lead me to my new partner, more fulfilling sex life, and more authentic path.”

Since working with Ev’Yan, I feel like I’ve undergone huge personal transformations that have left me feeling more confident, happier and more in tune with my authentic truth. Ev’Yan helped me trust my inner guidance more and realize that I have an amazing wellspring of knowledge to tap into. —Janet B.

Need some help on your sexual liberation journey?

If there’s anything I can do to help with that—resources, point you to some essays I’ve written, or just give you some encouragement—I would love to support you.

Send me an email anytime: evyan@sexloveliberation.com

Wherever you are, may you continue to awaken to your erotic power.

We’re in this together.


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