We started playing with the idea of seeing people outside of our relationship last year. It followed directly after I came out.
We decided mutually that non-monogamy was something worth exploring, simply because we wanted to explore it. It was my personal desires that fueled this exploration. He really didn’t have any intention to start something; he was busy enough already. But I was on a mission to becoming a sexual liberationist & I craved to actualize my curiosity.
So, we decided to experiment. (And I don’t think I even need to elaborate on how much of a paradox this all was.)
First, boundaries were set.