“I Believe You”: A Mantra of Healing For My Sexual Assault

Photo: Tumblr *Content warning: Rape and sexual assault. It started a few days ago, spurred on by incessant reminders in the media that men do horrible, violating things to women, that they (that I) aren’t always seen as having bodily autonomy. The tweets, the emails, the text messages, the sessions I’m having with my clients—I’ve… Read More

20 Sex Things I’ve Decided to Stop Caring About

Photo: The Things We Say I know that sex is supposed to be fun, but I have to be honest: sometimes it just isn’t. Sometimes it’s stressful, anxiety-inducing, nervewracking. A lot of times I find myself in my head so much about it that I am unable to enjoy the pleasure being given me. I… Read More

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