Bonus! Advice for High-Desire People in a Sex-Starved Relationship

Photo: Tumblr – Email if you know the artist (If you are a low-desire person, here are my tips and suggestions for you.) After writing my last post, I received a bunch of messages from high-desire partners asking me what they can do to help and support their low desire partners. As a person who has… Read More

“Don’t Do It”: Advice For a Sex-Starved Relationship (2/2)

Photo: Spencer Charles via Tumblr   Hear me read this post aloud to you. Press play above to listen. . . . In my last post, I talked about “just do it” sex, which one expert says is a cure for a sex-starved relationship. “Just doing it” looks like having sex even if you don’t want… Read More

“Just Do It”: Advice For a Sex-Starved Relationship (1/2)

Photo: Tumblr – Email if you know the artist   Hear me read this post to you. Press play above. . . . Eight years ago, my marriage could’ve easily been classified as sex-starved. I was about 22 (my husband 24), both of us decidedly way too young to be going through this issue, but there… Read More

An Ode (& Apology) to My Nipples

Photo: Radioactive Lingerie I remember being eight and pressing them as hard as I could into my chest to try to get them soft again after getting out of the swimming pool. I remember being fourteen and buying extra padded bras to help hide them in case they got hard in the excessively air-conditioned classrooms… Read More

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