about

This blog is for the bold at heart. For the sex goddesses, the artists, the freethinkers, the pleasure-seekers, the empaths, & the budding feminists.

It is especially for those who crave to describe themselves as sensual, empowered, erotic, feminine, & self-loving, but haven’t quite gotten there yet.

Welcome to this sensual safe haven.
You’re in good company.

My mission here is to breathe sensual, soul-stirring light into you. To make you beautifully conscious of your inherent erotic nature. To get you centered in an all-consuming kind of self-love. To encourage you to explore the innermost parts of your being. . .

. . . if only to teach myself these same lessons.

This is my journey of sexual self-discovery, & it’s yours too.


Who I am. . .

ev-selfie-circleMy name is Ev’Yan Whitney (pronounced EV-Yahn). I love sex & am intensely curious about my own sexuality. But it hasn’t always been this way. . .

Sex Love Liberation originally started out as a place for me to not-so-privately chronicle my own sexual awakening—a heartfelt process of uncovering & owning my sexual orientation; of exploring radical self-acceptance of my body & the way I work; of taking up space as a person of color; of playing around with different ways of being in relationship with my partner.

It’s since transformed into its own little digital sanctuary for not just myself, but for other women in helping them own their unique sexualities & find their footing as erotic, sensual, empowered women. I’m so grateful for that.

Even more so, I’m grateful that you’re here.

You can find even more information about me here. And you can get in touch with me here.


Ready to begin your own sexual liberation journey?

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What you should do next:

sex-square// Peruse through the still-red-hot SLL archives.

// Spark your sexual awakening by working one-on-one with me via private coaching.

// Join the sensual community on Facebook (for poetry, quotes, & images to incite you).

// Download some pretty wallpapers for your phone & computer desktop, just for you.

// Get the manifesto to dive even deeper into sexual liberation & intimate self-exploration.