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“Step into this fire of self-discovery. This fire will not burn you, it will only burn what you are not.” —Mooji

This site is for the sexually free. For the the sensualists, the pleasure-seekers, the ethical sluts, and the divine feminists.

It’s especially for those who hunger to use the words sensual, empowered, erotic, feminine, and self-loving to describe themselves, but haven’t quite gotten there yet.

Welcome to this sensual safe haven.

My mission here is to breathe sensual, soul-stirring light into you. To make you beautifully conscious of your inherent erotic nature. To get you grounded in a radical kind of self-love. And to encourage you to explore the innermost parts of your being. . .

. . . if only to teach myself these same lessons.

This is my journey of sexual self-discovery, and it’s yours too.


Who I am. . .

IMG_4676My name is Ev’Yan Whitney (pronounced EV-Yahn). I love sex and am insatiably curious about my own sexuality.

But it hasn’t always been this way. . .

Sex Love Liberation originally started out as a place for me to not-so-privately chronicle my own sexual awakening—a heartfelt process of uncovering and owning my sexual orientation; of exploring radical self-acceptance of my body and the way I work; of taking up space as a person of color; of playing around with different ways of being in relationship with my partner.

It’s since transformed into its own little digital sanctuary for not just myself, but for other women in helping them own their unique sexualities and find their footing as erotic, sensual, self-empowered women.

I’m so grateful for that.
And I’m grateful that you’re here.

You can find even more information about me here. And you can get in touch with me here.


Ready to begin your own sexual liberation journey?

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What you should do next:

sex-square// Peruse through the still-red-hot SLL archives.

// Spark your sexual awakening by working one-on-one with me via private coaching.

// Join the sensual community on Facebook (for poetry, quotes, & images to incite you).

// Download some pretty wallpapers for your phone & computer desktop, just for you.

// Get the manifesto to dive even deeper into sexual liberation & intimate self-exploration.