Taking Your Erotic Power Back With Sexy Selfies: A Conversation With Allyee Whaley


Art: @lovettezola

I used to think that selfie-taking was superficial and immature. Most articles I’ve read on the subject have touted as much.

And then I met Allyee.

In my last post, I talked about how I’m finding and practicing radical self-love through posting nude photos on the internet. And recently, I had an amazing conversation with the bad ass babe that inspired me to begin this journey.

In this episode of the Sexually Liberated Woman podcast, I talk to Allyee about. . .

/ How and why she started taking nude selfies and posting them on the internet (spoiler: “Fake it ’til you make it”).

/ The ways her selfie-taking is a political, feminist act and radically self-loving.

/ The way nude selfies have drastically changed her life—for better (“It’s changed me as a person for the better!”) and for worse (“I lost my job, dating has been impossible…”).

/ Allyee’s tips on how you can start taking nude selfies of your own to discover yourself as a sexual being.

Untitled-1“Taking my power back into my own hands and writing my own sexual narrative has been one of the most powerful, empowering things I’ve ever done for myself.”

We talked about so many things and honestly this brief peek at our conversation doesn’t do it justice. I love that I was able to get fiery with Allyee about intersectional feminism, sexual liberation, and shameless sexual space-taking. I also really loved what she had to say about men taking naked selfies.

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Some things mentioned in this episode:

About Allyee: Allyee Whaley is a sex worker, artist and activist with a strong background in sex, sexuality and gender. Sex (and sexy) work funds her outrageous ideas and dedication to radical activism, including her current project, Tramps Against Trump, which engages young voters by exchanging proof of voting for nudes. All of her work shares one common goal: to change the conversation around sex. Follow her on Instagram.

Want to learn how to take sexy selfies as a form of radical self-love and sexual acceptance?

Last we spoke, I told you about a workshop I was thinking of creating that would teach you how to take sexy selfies as a gesture of radical self-love and sexual acceptance.

The way I was seeing it in my head was that in edition to me guiding you through the workshop with lessons that would help you turn the camera on yourself, there would also be a designated safe space where you could share your sexy selfies with other women taking the class, fostering a close-knit sex positive community.

Anyway, I asked you if this would be something you’d be interested in, and the response I got from all of you has been incredible! I’ve heard a resounding Yes! across the board, and some of you are even wanting to get started now.

I’m so excited that this workshop sounds good to you, and I’m happy to announce that it’s happening! I’m currently in the process of making this workshop a reality, and I’ve already got a lesson-plan worked out.

If you were one of the people that said, HELL YES! to this idea, I invite you to sign up to the VIP list.

Everyone on this list will get access to the workshop before anyone else, and we’ll also start building that sex positive community now.

Put your email below to get on the VIP list!


I can’t wait to see your name on the list, and I’m so excited about creating this workshop for you!

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@evyan.whitney If you follow me on Instagram, you know that I’ve been posting some pretty risque photos for most of the year. One of them recently got removed (again!), and it’s got me thinking all over again about why I do this. Why do I post such vulnerable, racy, erotic photos on Instagram? Why exactly do… Read More

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